Not invite me to a party, gathering, sleep-over or whatever, don’t invite me dowwn when it’s time to play cards, don’t invite me to come with you to eat dinner at what you know is my favorite restaurant- to just assume I already know that I can or should go, well, that makes me want to punch you in the face.
Personally, I think your a total jack-ass if you just expect me to assume I should do something.
If you don’t tell me or address it to me personally, then I’m not invited.
If you randomly make an announcement somewhere going ‘lets all do this’ somewhere there’s a likely chance I won’t see it, it doesn’t matter if I see it or not, I’m likely going to pretend I didn’t. If you don’t even have the consideration to make sure I know, it tells me that I’m not important enough to waste your time on.
If you all start fucking talking about plans and already expect I know them when no one bothered to tell me personally, it tells me you’re likely not to want me there.
Same thing goes for saying ‘Let’s all do this later!’ then not calling me when it’s time to do it and then just telling me ‘Oh, you never came so we just did it without you’ when you never even set a time.
Is it that fucking hard to make the effort? Or do I expect too much that other people do the same because I make sure I do it?